Croatia’s greatest (and most tragic) love stories

Ljerka Šram and Milivoj Dežman
Milivoj Dežman and Ljerka Šram; Image by Zagrebinfo

Like any other country, Croatia has its own notable love stories that have been retold over and over for generations. Some are legends, but a few are real love stories that happened to real Croats. Most have tragically Shakespearean endings, so prepare yourself.

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#1 Peasant Veronika and count Fridrik, Veliki Tabor/Desinić (LEGEND)

The legend of Veronika Desinićka (Veronica of Desenice) dates back to the 15th century. It is a love story between poor girl Veronika from Desinić, Hrvatsko Zagorje, and count Fridrik (Frederick), son of count Herman Celjski who often stayed in his father’s castle of Veliki Tabor.

Fridrik visited the neighboring village Desinić, where he met Veronika. Although he was already married to Elizabeta (Elizabeth) for 8 years, Veronika and Fridrik fell in love. Fridrik totally lost his mind and couldn’t let go of Veronika. He killed Elizabeta then married Veronika two years later.

Count Herman was terrified by his behavior, so he had his son-in-law Zigmund (Sigmund) (a Hungarian-Croatian king) sentence Fridrik to death. Fridrik’s sister, queen Barbara came to his defense, so Zigmund instead pardoned him and sent him to Celje, Slovenia where he was imprisoned for 5 years.

In the meantime, Herman captured Veronika in Ojstrica, Slovenia, and accused her of being a witch in front of the court in Celje. He claimed she put a spell on his son to get their fortune.

The reasonable court set her free due to a lack of evidence. Furious Herman captured Veronika again, this time in Veliki Tabor, then ordered his servants to drown her. Veronika was entombed into the wall between the central tower and the entrance to the Veliki Tabor castle.

It is believed that Veronika’s spirit still wanders the Desinić region, especially the old Veliki Tabor castle, which is seen as the eternal tomb of unhappy love.

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#2 Dobrila and Miljenko, Kaštel Lukšić (LEGEND)

The legend of Dobrila and Miljenko is referred to as a Croatian version of Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet.

The story takes place at Kaštel Lukšić near Split in the 17th century. Dobrila Vitturi and Miljenko Rušinić both came from noble families who fought over rural peasants’ feudal rights. They fell in love but had to meet secretly. After their families discovered them, they tried to separate them.

After many scandals, Dobrila and Miljenko got married, but her father couldn’t deal with it. After the wedding, he shot Miljenko with kubura (flintlock) in front of his castle in Kaštel Lukšić. A few months later, Dobrila lost her mind, got sick, and died.

Dobrila and Miljenko’s graves are located in the Saint Ivan’s church on Rušinac in Kaštel Lukšić. Vitturi and Rušinić castles are open to visitors.

#3 Nymph Kalipso and Odisej, the island of Mljet (LEGEND)

It is believed that the island of Mljet is actually the mythical island Ogigija (Ogygia), the location of a famous love story from Greek mythology. After a shipwreck, the sea brought Odisej (Odysseus) to the island – home to Greek nymph Kalipso.

She fell in love with him and wanted him to stay with her forever. In return, she would give him immortality and eternal youth. Odisej refused, so she trapped him on the island for 7 years until Zeus ordered her to set him free.

There is a cave on the island of Mljet in which Kalipso allegedly lived. This cave is now called Odisejeva spilja (Odyssey Cave).

[Read: Visiting Mljet National Park]

#4 Actress Ljerka and writer Milivoj, Zagreb (TRUE)

The most famous love story from Zagreb was between actress Ljerka Šram and Milivoj Dežman, leader of Croatian modernism and editor-in-chief of the Croatian political magazine called Obzor (Sight) at the end of the 19th century.

Milivoj and Ljerka met in childhood, as he was a friend of her brother. Milivoj fell in love with Ljerka, but nevertheless, he went away to study in Graz.

Milivoj and Ljerka sent letters to each other, but after a while, Ljerka stopped responding. His mother discovered that Ljerka became an actress in the new Croatian National Theater (HNK) in Zagreb set to open soon.

His mother also noticed that Ljerka had a new surname. While Milivoj was abroad, she married Aleksandar Isaković, president of the First Croatian savings bank.

Although Milivoj was devastated, he came to the HNK’s show to see Ljerka perform. Everyone made fun of him, but he believed that Ljerka would return to him one day. In the meantime, he dedicated himself to his career and became a doctor. He also became a notable Croatian writer and the leader of Croatian modernism, a literary period built on the inspiration of this turbulent love.

After a while, Ljerka’s husband was accused of embezzlement in the savings bank, so he fled and left her alone with their son.

Finally, Ljerka and Milivoj reconnected and lived together until her death. Ljerka died from lung disease in a hospital in Brestovec, where her spirit still wanders.

[Read: Croatian National Theater: HNK Zagreb]

#5 Izolda and Leon, Split (LEGEND)

This legend from the 14th century is a story about young unfortunate lovers from Split’s patrician families.

A city judge called Alberti had a daughter named Izolda. While she was still a child, he selected the boy whom she would marry when old enough named Lucijan (Lucian). Throughout their childhood and adolescence, Izolda became more passionate and feminine, and Lucijan more good-looking, but also shy, which Izolda didn’t like. As they got older, they grew apart.

When a Venetian captain visited Split with his attractive son Leon, Izolda and Leon instantly fell in love.

To hide their love, Izolda and Leon would disguise themselves in white Benedictine garments and meet at night in the graveyard. Their late-night meetings drew suspicion from the city guards and so they were discovered. Izolda’s parents sent her to the Benedictine monastery to isolate and separate her from Leon, but they continued to meet in secret.

Lucijan was still jealous and wanted Izolda back. To get Izolda’s attention, he decided to participate in a bullfight. He wanted Izolda to watch and be won over by his display of manliness. However, Leon participated in the bullfight as well. He knocked down the biggest bull and again, turned out better than Lucijan.

Devastated Lucijan stabbed Leon in the heart during a celebration and escaped from Split. Izolda isolated herself in a monastery and died of grief for the fallen Leon. She was buried in a wedding dress.

#6 Empress Marija Terezija and baron Franjo Trenk, Kutjevo (LEGEND)

Hungarian-Croatian empress Marija Terezija (Maria Theresa) traveled to Osijek where she met baron Franjo Trenk (Franz von der Trenck), an Austrian soldier in Kutjevo’s castle. To impress her, Franjo presented her with various tasty wines. Dazed by wine, they isolated themselves together in a basement and made love for a week.

After a while, servants entered the basement and saw a bunch of empty bottles and 70 dashes engraved on the wall.

It is believed that each time they made love, Marija Terezija and Franjo left a dash on the wall. They also left an imprint on a stone table, which is said to be of Marija’s behind, created during lovemaking. Women from the castle believed that the Empress could melt even a stone with her love and passion.

This stone table lies between the wine barrels in the basement in Kutjevo to this day. There is still a belief that it has miraculous properties. If you leave your palm prints on the table, your love wish will be fulfilled in a year.

#7 Poor Roko and Cicibela, Split (TRUE)

Plaque for Roko and Cicibela on Matejuska pier in Split, Croatia
Plaque honoring Roko and Cicibela on Matejuška in Split

This true story from the beginning of the 20th century is about Roko and Dujka, who went by the nickname Cicibela. Both were from Split. Cicibela from Veli Varoš would go to Matejuška to wash clothes where Roko was fishing.

Soon they fell in love and got married. Since they were poor, they lived on an old abandoned fishing boat.

One cold morning, citizens of Split found them together frozen on the beach of Matejuška. Roko and Cicibela proved that nothing is more important than true love, not even money.

Nowadays, Matejuška is a hangout for the youth of Split.

Here is a song from legendary Croatian singer Oliver Dragojević called Ća je život vengo fantažija (What is life than fantasy), about the love of Roko and Cicibela.

[Read: Croatian music guide: Oliver Dragojević]

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Sources: 
https://explorecroatia.eu/blog/5-najljepsih-ljubavnih-legendi-iz-hrvatske/
https://www.adriatic.hr/hr/blog/najpoznatije-ljubavne-price-iz-hrvatske/320
https://dnevnik.hr/showbuzz/inmagazin/prica-o-roku-i-cicibeli—390180.html
https://www.zagreb.info/ritam-grad/o-gradu/zagrebacka-ljubavna-prica/71234/

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